Sixteen stone platinum ring hurts ur fingers!!! It doesn't make a good wedding band. I spoke with Tiffany and the first line of salespeople said they couldn't help but I got to speak with a supervisor. The supervisor was very helpful. We decided in the end to keep the ring but only wear it for special occasions because it is fragile and it hurts to wear. We didn't return bc it's in our wedding photos etc. We r going to have me wear a simple inexpensive wedding band daily and save this one for special occasions. It's a shame that we bought this 11k ring and now we r emotionally attached to it without knowing its characteristic. But at least now Tiffanys has reached out and gave us options. Tiffanys redeemed themselves in our eyes.