I can't say I have much experience in shopping at adult novelty stores, but, on a dare, I stopped by and was helped by Deaneer. She answered my (awkward) questions, explained what items would make good gifts for the love of my life (my wife) and was very professional. The Chai Vanilla massage oil is awesome. There are gag gifts and (apparently) gags. Didn't need those this time, but, if my bloviating on the interwebs keeps up, I might need one or the other to bring me back to earth.