I was told by a friend that even Most divorce attorneys (though off the record) would recommend mediation. It is a LOT less expensive, and takes a LOT less time to get past this, and on with your advice. I took his advice and was referred to Michael at Aurit Mediation. I was not disappointed. He was professional, knowledgeable, prompt in his communication, fair, honest, and an expert in helping us reach an understanding that both of us could live with. I recommend him and his team highly.