It really pains me to have to change my review. I've always loved the Oxley and spent a lot of time here over the years. But, recently I had such an awful experience it was inexcusable. I was blatantly treated bad by two different women servers. In the times of 'me too' and universal women's day I rips my heart out when women go out of their way to treat other women badly, it is inexcusable and needs to be addressed. The first server gave my two male friends menus and wouldn't give me one and then when we ordered a bottle of red she wouldn't give me a glass till one of my male friends pointed it out. The second server wouldn't let me order and when I finally did, brought my male friends drinks while I was made to wait for 20 minutes for my beer that is on tap, when I tried to get her attention this woman dodged me like the plague. It finally got so bad my make friends urged me to go to the bar to confront her, she pretended that she hadn't been keeping me waiting and ignoring me and I finally got it within the next 10 min. I have to say I really felt awful after my visit. Having have felt such aggressive sexism from my own sex. I cant say I will be back soon. I really hope that this issue gets resolved. It is very disheartening.