The cheapest, most relaxed wine bar is my living room futon. That said, Uncorked is the next best thing, and it is a lot classier than my futon, plus I cannot cook like these people, so you should probably go to Uncorked rather than coming over to my place.
Hmm, let's see. Favorites? The pinot noir flight or the whites you've never tried are both well worth your money. Follow the server's suggestions for pairings with the food and you'll be on your way to sheer deliciousness, BUT personally I love the Fig and Pig salad (that would be a great restaurant name on its own) and the crostini plate.