Unfortunately, you'll not be able to dine at The Barn unless you're a member. But a dining membership is not out of reach for many people. If you ever have a chance to go, you'll have a wonderful club experience in a cozy quasi formal atmosphere (jackets required for men still). The menu is old school continental, they have a very good wine list, and the cocktails are VERY generous. So generous, I'd warn against ordering a double.