It's very upsetting that my first yelp review is a negative one. From the moment I stepped into this club, i felt unwelcome. I joined my friend in the bathroom where I was telling her that I planned on leaving because I had a long day the next day. With 2 minutes, an employee walked i and told us to take out conversation out of the bathroom. we just wanted a quiet place to discuss our situation, and we are kicked out. Then, I decided to stick it out and hang out with my friend and her boyfriend for one more hour before bed since I rarely see them. I decided to sit at the bar while they danced. The bartender who told me I "don't look 'fine'" didn't care to know that I woke up at 4 am that morning, aka 24 hours prior to me sitting st the bar. I will never return to Tilden due to its terrible, unwelcoming staff. I'm allowed to enjoy time with my friends without participating in drinking or dancing without being questions about how sober I am. If you business cannot accept that some people want to be there and not drink because they've had a long day, there's a big problem.