I'm very hard to please. I have a ton of hair and have had so many bad cuts I sometimes let it grow out past where I should just because I'm afraid of someone distroying it.
I have found my salon. With the exception of one time, I've been very happy with the cut. The one time just told me to switch stylists.
My advise is to question your stylist. If you have a new style that you want, make sure that they can pull it off. It shouldn't offend them, if it does see someone different