I go here to help Find a Grave dot com. This place is very helpful when it comes to me getting a snapshot of someone's loved one gravestone. I take a short list to the office and they tell me each location and I appreciate that. There are other cemeteries that frown on us taking pictures of graves but they fail to realize, these are dead people. The King David Mortuary next door says they are afraid of someone stealing someone's identity and I have to laugh. You cannot steal the identity of a dead person. Your social security number goes public once you die. You can go onto Ancestry dot come and see dead people's social security numbers, they list them there because they are inactive numbers. You can't do anything with a deactivated social security number and SS deactivates it once you die -- so what would be the reasoning for not allowing a volunteer come in and get a snap shot for a relative back east? The good far, far out weighs the paranoia of stealing the identity of a dead person. Who on earth, who, would want a photo of a grave other that a loved one anyways? My Mom is buried in southern CA so just about once a year I put in a request for a pic of the grave. To see how it's doing, to make sure it's still there, to show honor from afar for my Mom. Thanks Palm Eastern Cemetery for caring about the living.