I was completely clueless when I met Ken Nair. I had no idea how I really affected my wife. Some of the things Ken taught me have stayed with me forever, and serve me in other areas of my life as well. I've also introduced my friends to him and recommended them, and shared some of Ken's advice with others. I never will truly "arrive", noone is perfect.. but if you're ready for help, you're ready to work hard at it, you have an open mind and an open heart, this is the only place I'd go... I would never go to one of those regular marriage counselor places... this isn't that.. this actually works, if you do..