My go-to car wash a few miles from home. The actual wash does a decent job and I always go for the hand towel dry after going through the wash.
About every other wash I go for the complete interior job as well. They work pretty quickly, so you only have to sit outside for 10 or so minutes.
When the window guy is there, he's pretty easy to say "no thanks" to, not overly pushy.
Go with the new car scent.