I paid $4500, while my former wife paid $1500. Never saw anyone else who paid over $3000. I don't like being taken advantage of. That is so deceptive. I saw many dreadful reviews. Many times, IJL would not provide a photo or information on the date. I decided not to use the service, and they refused to refund me, of course, even though I wised up and never got started. I am going to get the credit card to reverse the charge. If that does not work, I will file a lawsuit. I think they guarantee you only dates over ten months. I did finally get my money back