Not kid friendly at all. This may be a plus feature for most but very sad for our family. We stay at a lot of nice resorts and have a very well behaved child. I feel like the staff continually gives us dirty looks when we walk around the grounds. We tried to have a healthy breakfast for her at the restaurant next door to the spa, but they refused us access. They told us we could eat at Palo Verde which is a formal restaurant and they had snubbed us there the night before when we tried to go in for drinks and dessert with our little one. The only restaurant they suggest is their spotted donkey restaurant which is off campus so to speak. I find it very ironic that the cafe next to the spa is full of sweaty, smelly people and a well dressed, polite three year is denied access. We just finished staying at their sister property- the Biltmore and what a difference. There the staff made us feel welcome everywhere. Shame on the Boukders. Why don't you put out your no kids signs everywhere so at least we know. I think today we will take our kid to the main pool an have her do a few cannonballs. :-) Hopefully this saves families with little ones or at least sets your expectations appropriately.