Dear Dr Laura, I've been frequenting this bar on the outsides of the city for quite sometime now, I love this bar, the food and the service are always great, even though the place is always slow being away from the city but that is one of the reasons I enjoy it since the chances of running into someone I know are close to none. There couldn't be anything more romantic than to meet the person you love away from everything, enjoying a few cocktails and some good tasting bar food. I've always had some of the great times at this tavern and I'm glad I met my soul mate here ( many of them if I may add). Now.... I'm not a selfish person and I do hope a lot of people find out about this great tavern and enjoy it as much as I do. My problem is...how do I keep my "wife" away?