Hands down, this is one of the best places to come in Charlotte. My wife and I went on a Friday evening, and we enjoyed it immensely. My experience was the absolute best. I especially love that a membership is required, it provides a sense of exclusivity while garnering safety and security. Honestly I can appreciate that your website provides information on what to expect. It should be viewed as being proactive. But then you experience some patrons who think that they are the exception to all the worlds rules. I think the dress code idea is necessary, it sort of puts everyone on the same playing field and creating some inclusiveness within the establishment. Now my issue is that my wife wants her own membership to bring her friends.
Also, I've used Yelp for years and never considered creating a profile until after my visit at Dot Dot Dot.
BRAVO, job well done my friend!!!!!