Unfortunately I need to edit my review. I've heard too many lousy things through the grapevine to feel safe going to this establishment anymore. "My sociopathic ex works there." "They treat sex workers really badly." "I get misgendered by staff all the time." Then the owners started fighting and/or blocking anyone criticizing them on social media. Then they started leaving supportive messages on the social media pages of other businesses with sexual harrassment/abuse allegations, saying victims shouldn't be believed, etc. It's just... nah. It's the only game in town, so here's hoping some enterprising business-person with better ethics opens something up!
Previous review below:
This is a great place to go for a special occasion or just to relax. Play in the dungeon, enjoy watching others or being watched, or just grab a towel and relax in the sauna, jacuzzi or steam room. The staff are outgoing and polite.
The clientele have a reputation for being far less skeezy/inappropriate than most places. Single men must be accompanied by a woman to visit the upper floors; this is to make the space safer for women, though I am not sure what this means for men who come to play together. I guess one of the nearby men-only bathhouses would be more suited to them.
I give Oasis 4 stars because I love going to events there, but the flavour is pretty het and vanilla. Still a nice night out!