I look forward to our date nights at Thai Gourmet. It's a must to start off with Thai tea. And the spicy wonton are a delightful spicy, garlicky appetizer (or meal if you're not very hungry.) My favorite dish is the Cornish hen. I don't know what kind of magic they weave into their curry sauce, but it's delectable.
And the coconut ice cream for dessert...can you say YAAS!!
I find it enjoyable to have a small place, where you can enjoy an intimate dining experience and not be overwhelmed by dozens of other diners. The food speaks loud enough for itself, without having to fight for your attention from raucousness.
Like things spicy, maybe more so than the average American? Just tell them you want it spicy! Oh boy, you will NOT be disappointed!