Homme is my favorite bar.
I was disappointed when they took down the rainbow flag from outside, though. Now when you show up to support your favorite bartenders and DJ's there's far too many straight boys staring hungrily for this queer girls comfort. I'm glad Homme keeps its arms wide open for everyone...gay/straight/bi/scenster/hippie/goth/young/old blah blah blah...but Homme is a gay bar at heart!
Most of the bartenders are awesome. If you're respectful and generous they will return the favor.
The music varies throughout the week. Party Foul Fridays bump electro, Resurrection Wednesdays will give you industrial and 90's alt. The music, regardless of the day of the week, is sure to offer a breath of fresh air to anyone sick of and annoyed by typical club music.
Come to dance and people watch. Watch out if you drive there, though. Cars get smashed into in the parking lot sometimes, and cops like to hang out near by to catch you trying to drive home!
Edit: I took away a star because of how much fun I did NOT have last night at Party Foul. Where did all those Scottsdale bitches come from? Why were all those boys standing around on the dance floor when I was trying to dance? Why did that new door guy give me a hard time when nobody else did? Arg! It might be time to find a Friday night place that hasn't been infested with the masses yet :(