Went in on a Sunday about 4pm. Waitress handed menus walked away and did not return for 10 minutes to even take drink order, breadsticks came well after salad which took 15 minutes to get. I was extremely thirsty and had finished by beverage. I sat my empty glass on the edge of the table hoping the waitress would grab it on her way by, didn't happen until after meals came. Waitress was too busy to attend to her tables as she was taking pictures at another table. I wanted a refill on salad which I did not receive. Waitress reached over my plate of food to reach the empty breadstick plate and stuck her arm right in my food. I sat there in such shock and horror at the way she performed her job. Two breadsticks, very small amount of salad, her arm in my food and an empty beverage glass. The manager was walking table to table asking about service however skipped our table (probably noticed the look of disgust) I went to front looking for him while my date paid bill. Manager had disappeared.