I have never sweat so much as I have when I go to the dance floor at Suede. Everyone is literally on top of each other and usually too drunk to notice, so if youre not in that frame of mind yet, I recommend that you head out to the patio and start shooting whatever "that guy" is buying.
Suedes got a cool atmosphere inside and out, especially if you can go on a night where you can actually see whats what, and has great food if you can get in before the masses take over. They play hip hop after 11 on the weekends, theres cover for guys and not girls, and a dresscode as well. Drinks are pricey but average for Scottsdale, watch out for doubles of Grey Goose.
Standard Scottsdale bar... Good times.