My wife was having some serious issues, so I went with her to see Dr. Wilson. We waited in an odd hallway until someone shuttled us into a giant office with a massive desk. In walked Dr. Wilson with wild hair with sparkles (??) in it. She ignored me and my wife--looked at wife's chart from computer on massive desk. Finally she said her only option was surgery and it was clear one does not question Dr. Sparkle.
Look, I get you're a great surgeon (as the medical community states--FYI you never know who patients are in your office and who they may know) but people are
h-u-m-a-n-s first not just paychecks for procedures.
We left and found another doc and were happy we made that choice. Bedside manner is first and foremost, good doctor.