Our server was not attentitive and pre judged us for sure.
I am in the industry and know good service- this was not it.
When we told her that we had shells in our oysters she just walked away. Waited too long for a glass of wine and she was not very informative. We had to ask other servers for help and guidance with the menu.
Please note that especially over the holidays some of us are willing to spend really good money on food and drink...if we choose YOUR venue...you should know this.