I wanted to preface my statement with something positive. I love Vietnamese culture, family values & yes, the food!
I've frequented this particular Vietnamese restaurant several times & noticed even with a nice tip for good service it still felt "cold".
Today's visit we ordered as usual. My partner needed additional rice. She was ignored by two different staff members?! I can understand if it's not your particular function. If not, let someone else be aware. Finally, we asked a third person & he fulfilled the order of rice. Today was noisier then usual with the busboy organizing & preparing utensils. Later, I asked my partner, (she is Vietnamese ) why the cold reception from the male employees. She says it's normal for Vietnamese men to harbor contempt & general disregard for woman who date outside of their race. Really. pfft