Butter is not the type of club you go to on a whim. You must be prepared to spend a lot of money on their pricey full bar, valet parking, coat check, cover charges, etc. Also, being an upscale club you MUST wear clothes that would be classified as 'dress to impress'. Fridays and Saturdays will be the hardest days to get in as the crowds are much bigger than Thursdays. The last few times I went to Butter were on Thursday nights, the only complaint I have is about the crowd. There is hardly a crowd at all on Thursdays and if you want to dance and mingle go on Fridays and Saturdays, as the Thursday crowd just stands around doing nothing. Tuesdays are okay too if you want to mingle with a younger crowd, 18+ night. For girls it's a lot more fun because it's relatively easier for them to get in than boys. Butter is my favorite club in Charlotte but I need to be prepared to spend a bit extra than I usually do going out.