I went to Tao twice. Once for food and once to party. Security is ridiculously tight. I think I had to flash my ID four times in two minutes to get upstairs. Like, I'm not a hardened criminal and I'm way over 21! Club is small and loud. What else is new? I really thought the club would be a lot larger. Drink wise I was very dissapointed in the beer selection. Bud, Coors, Heineken, Amstel and Corona? That's it? Weak. Restaurant has pretty good food. Salad I had was in what looked more like a soup tureen and Wasabi crusted Filet Mignon was very good with a bit of a lingering Wasabi effect.
I should mention I was there for a private party and as we were all leaving we actually got greeted by one of the hostesses there who made sure we had a really good time and answered all of our questions. She didn't know what Yelp was but she does now. So maybe she'll read your comments and improve the place.