Without over-sharing about personal issues, I know how difficult it can be to find good care. Dr. Ivchenko is an amazing gynecologist. He is thorough, kind and intelligent. I would highly recommend him- even if it is a bit out of the way for you (it is, for me, but I know a gem when I find one).
I know a lot of women prefer a woman gynecologist. I was the same way, and I challenge you to break free from this preference. It is a million times easier to get an appointment, and, well, Dr. Ivchenko is pretty much the best.