I still have a great time here despite the sometime rough crowd. Neither me nor my guy drink , so for me there needs to be a comfortable place for us to go and enjoy ourselves. The bartenders always make great mocktails, and I actually start having more fun and dance more the more I have. I like that Latin Nights the best. On Weds it is a great place to go if you want to just have a girls night. This place is small enough to just enjoy the people watching and where it's not too loud or crowded where you feel pressured to have a drink just to make it through. We have been to other lounges and clubs, and when you tell them you just want a water or something non alcoholic they don't give you the best vibe. But BM is not that way and we are just comfortable there. If I feel like the crowd is getting too out of hand and people are not capable of handling their liquor I just say it's time for us to go. It is meat market though so ladies be prepared for the guys to try all night! Even if you are with someone they still try! :/ They also have an industry happy hour and always accommodating if you just want to eat as well. Some of the crowd are like 50 year olds with grandchildren trying to relive their youth, it's entertaining nonetheless watching !