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| - Wife and I went on a Friday at opening. We chatted with a guy for half-hour or so, then I started making out with my wife. I invited the guy to come over and kiss her neck and even reach around and play with a breast through her dress.
Unfortunately, some other dude that smelled like an overflowing ashtray wondered up and tried to put his dick in her hand and started groping her. I called halt. What the hell? Then I learn the other that I'd invited to play with her breasts had been trying to hike her dress up and was playing with her ass.... Dude!
There were only single guys and some people that looked homeless, so we bailed and went to a dance club for a couple hours.
We came back to Encounters about mid-night. There were a few more people in the club, but not many. One couple was in the couples room doing some heavy petting while discussing politics or some such. Not hot. We start getting heavy in hopes the other couple would stop talking about the kids' report cards, but nope... they were still as cold as fish.
After that couple bailed, we went to the main room, but those chairs are too uncomfortable to play. I went to the restroom, and single guys come up to talk to my wife... a major no-no in the lifestyle. DUDES!
So, we had the choice of going back to the couples room which was empty (so would be like at home), going to the private room (again, like home) or using one of the couches in the j/o room.. I mean TV room. We wanted to be watched. Maybe find 1 guy to do some light petting of my wife...
I check the j/o room and it is empty, but I figure that if we go in, maybe a few guys will follow. We go in, and suddenly every single guy in the club is there. I'm very clear... No touching and no lewd comments.
So, we start making out, getting heavy, get her tits out and suck on them. Lewd comments keep coming despite me asking the guys to keep them down. Then wife calls timeout. Guys keep reaching out and touching her thighs, and she's thinking its the homeless looking guys and it creeps her out.
So, we bailed the club. Probably not going back.
I see the club as being in a Catch-22. Need the entrance fees of the single guys to pay the bills and stay in business, but too many single guys and it drives everyone else away.
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