I would go back to your restaurant because of the ambiance and location.... But I was indirectly insulted by the server assigned to mine and my husbands table..... I manage a restaurant and I would not disrespect any of our clients.... You have to train your servers that if its a couple especially a man & a Woman.... they have to at least ask the woman and serve the woman first... I don't know if your server is doing the trick to serve the guy first because they would tip more... ...IThere're a lot of reasons I can think of, of why she did such a move--- putting the appetizers way on the side of my husband,,, in front of him... What was I???--- Table was empty except for our drinks... So what was her reason..... to all the lady servers... you don't know who handles the checkbook :) So my advise is to just plain respect the woman if they are with a man..... I would have tipped more but I still gave the right amount of tip........