Ru San's staff sexually harassed my wife.
My wife went to the restroom which is very close to the kitchen and as she walked past several members of the kitchen and wait staff yelled sexual innuendos at her while whistling and making lewd gestures. This happened both as she went into the restroom and came out of it. After hearing what happened I had her point out the member of staff that did this as she was visibly upset and pretty shaken up. I confronted him as he passed by and asked him if he said the things she accused him of. To my surprise he said he did and that he didn't think it was a big deal.
We had not been seated yet and if you've been to Ru San's you know that people just sort of hang out by the front waiting, which is where we were. At this point we were both very uncomfortable as other members of the staff were smiling and making it known they thought the situation was funny. I asked to see a manager even though we were absolutely not going to eat here at this point. I explained to the manager what happened but I was very surprised to hear his response. He explained to me that his staff regularly treats women like this and while he apologizes we were offended it was "just the way it is". We had been to this restaurant before and had no problems so this came as a shock to my wife and I. I asked him if he thought it was ok to yell sexually explicit comments at female customers and he replied that he did because it was all in good fun. Keep in mind other customers could surely hear the things said to my wife coming in and out of the restroom. If you are ok with patronizing an establishment that thinks it's ok to sexually harass female customers then Ru San's is your place but for the rest of us I can say I will never go there again.