UPDATE: Went in again tonight to give the bartenders another chance. Went and sat down at the bar that had 10 (or less) people at it. Sat and waited for about 2 minutes while two bartenders sat and talked behind the bar and didn't even look at us directly behind them. The barback greeted us but no one else even acknowledged us before we just walked out and went somewhere else. Im sorry but all your bartenders should be fired.
Let me preface this by saying I have worked in the service industry for 6 years now- 3 of those being in Uptown Charlotte. The first bartender came up to us pretty stand offish. No biggie. We finish our drinks and the bar back collects our glasses and asks if we would like another. We say yes and he grabs a bartender to come help us. Bartender comes over and asks my friend what she wants to drink. He goes and makes her drink and she pays cash. He cashes her out and walks away. Not once did he notice I was without a drink or even look at me. He did not ask what I wanted to drink at all. Had to grab the bar back again to get another bartender (one of 4-5 of them) to get my drink order. This bartender was finally super nice and courteous. Just disappointed as a fellow service industry person that they don't care about good service.